Matthew 5:9 Blessed are the peacemakers; for they shall be called the children of God.
What, exactly, is a peacemaker? There are almost as many interpretations as there are Christians. Some people think it means you avoid conflict at all costs. Others think it’s okay to go to war to promote or preserve peace, paradoxically. Is it possible to be a leader and a peacemaker? Can you advocate for the oppressed and be a peacemaker? Do peacemakers ever initiate conflict?
Peacemakers can do all of these things, if it’s the right thing to do. Dr. M. L. King was a master of peacemaking. He advocated for sweeping societal change and massive readjustment of laws without throwing a punch or firing a gun. Impressive, by any measure. The hard part is following that example in everyday life. Choosing words that won’t be construed as “fighting words” is extremely difficult if you truly believe you have the right point of view.
It’s true that sometimes people of integrity must fight for change, but I think people take that too far. Choose battles well and carefully. Holding grudges, hanging on to bitterness, and perpetuating feuds is an energy drain on the person dragging around the anger, and does not help the cause of peace. Even the way we talk about things can change how we feel. “It makes me so angry when I see people eating food that isn’t good for them,” can reinforce actually feeling angry. Other people’s diets shouldn’t affect your emotion—that’s just silly.
The challenge is to notice what makes you angry, and change your reaction. Is this worth the time and energy to be angry? Should I choose this battle? Often, the answer is no. It doesn’t promote peace in the world to react negatively.
Use the energy you save to learn to lead your community or peers, colleagues, or student body in truly promoting peace, decreasing violence, and making your world safe for everyone.